Our 2025 Reflection: A Year That Changed Everything

Bunny’s 25th birthday May 2025 in Catalina Island (Avalon)

It’s hard to believe we’re wrapping up 2025. When we wrote our SMART goals post back in March, we had no idea just how much this year would transform our lives. What started as a year of goal-setting became a year of building—building our home, our family, and our future together.

The Goals We Crushed

Back in March, Bunny and I set out with a list of SMART goals. Here’s where we landed:

Content Creation Challenge: ✓ Complete We did it—100 TikTok videos published! Two videos a week, week after week. Some weeks it was easy; others required us to push through when we didn’t feel like it. But we showed up consistently, and that consistency paid off.

Launching Our Flower Business: ✓ Complete Our floral dreams officially bloomed into reality this year. Taking this leap together as a couple has been one of the most rewarding parts of 2025.

International Adventure: ✓ Complete We made it out of the USA! Canada was our destination, and it turned out to be more significant than just a vacation (more on that below).

Art Appreciation: ✓ Complete We committed to finding one piece of art that speaks to both of us. As it turns out, that piece is the ring I gave Bunny when I proposed. It’s the most meaningful art we could have chosen—something she wears every day that represents our love and commitment to each other.

Beyond the Goals: Life Had Bigger Plans

While we were busy checking off our SMART goals, 2025 had a few surprises in store—the kind that redefine everything.

We’re Expecting The biggest news of all: we’re becoming parents. This wasn’t on our goal list, but it’s now at the center of everything we’re building toward. Our little one is on the way, and we couldn’t be more excited for this next chapter.

We Got Engaged I proposed, she said yes, and it was absolutely perfect. This year took us from partners to fiancés, and planning our future together has never felt more real.

We Moved In Together Early in the year, we officially became roommates (the best kind). Combining our lives under one roof was a big step, and it set the tone for everything that followed.

Our Families Met We hosted both sets of parents for the first time. Watching our families come together and connect was a moment we’ll never forget. It felt like the beginning of something bigger than just the two of us.

Closed Two New Properties Remember that trip to Canada? It wasn’t just a vacation. We closed on two presale homes, finalized the mortgages, and successfully rented both of them out. From dreaming about real estate to managing tenants—all in one year.

Growing Individually Too

This year wasn’t just about us as a couple. We both pushed ourselves to grow individually.

Bunny’s Wins:

  • Completed two college courses while balancing everything else
  • Learned to make latte art (our mornings have never been better)

Leaozinho’s Wins:

  • Navigated a project shutdown at work, then started a new project and rebuilt the team from the ground up
  • Attended a computer science conference to keep learning and connecting with the community

What We’re Taking Into 2026

Not every goal got checked off this year—the monkey bars are still waiting, and we didn’t quite hit our reading or language learning targets. But honestly? We’re okay with that. Life handed us opportunities we couldn’t have planned for, and we said yes to them.

Looking back, 2025 wasn’t just a year of growth. It was the year we laid the foundation for the rest of our lives: engaged, expecting, business partners, and more in love than ever.

Thank you to everyone who’s followed along on this journey. Here’s to 2026—we have a feeling it’s going to be even bigger.

With love, Leaozinho & Bunny

Unlocking Success with the 80/20 Principle

Book reflections: The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch

The Secret of Achieving More With Less.

Chapters of the book

  1. Part One: Overture
    • Welcome to the 80/20 Principle
    • How to Think 80/20
  2. Part Two: Corporate Success Needn’t Be a Mystery
    • The Underground Cult
    • Why Your Strategy Is Wrong
    • Simple Is Beautiful
    • Hooking the Right Customers
    • The Top 10 Business Uses of the 80/20 Principle
    • The Vital Few Give Success to You
  3. Part Three: Work Less, Earn and Enjoy More
    • Being Free
    • Time Revolution
    • You Can Always Get What You Want
    • With a Little Help From Our Friends
    • Intelligent and Lazy
    • Money, Money, Money
    • The Seven Habits of Happiness
    • Your Hidden Friend
  4. Part Four: The 80/20 Future
    • Success Through 80/20 Networks
    • When 80/20 Becomes 90/10
    • Your Place in the 80/20 Future
  5. Part Five: The Principle Revisited
    • The Two Dimensions of the Principle

The 80/20 Principle: A Guide to Working Smarter, Not Harder

Note this is not a comprehensive summary of the book but provides some highlights which should give you a taste of the material covered in this book. If the the content in this post peaks your interest I recommend purchasing and reading the book. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. I’m sure I will revisit the book again in the future to remind myself of some of the key takeaways.

The 80/20 principle, also known as the Pareto principle, is a powerful concept that can transform how we approach work, relationships, and life in general. At its core, it states that roughly 80% of results come from 20% of causes. This seemingly simple observation has profound implications for how we can optimize our lives and work.

Understanding 80/20 Thinking

The power of 80/20 thinking lies in its ability to help us identify what truly matters. Unlike conventional thinking, which tends to be rushed and linear, 80/20 thinking is:

  • Reflective: It encourages us to step back, think quietly, and mine for precious insights before taking action
  • Unconventional: It challenges conventional wisdom and finds opportunities where others see none
  • Strategic: It focuses on the few objectives that give us comparative advantage
  • Nonlinear: It recognizes that not all inputs and efforts yield proportional results

Applying the Principle to Different Areas of Life

Career and Work

Most value in any organization comes from a small percentage of professionals. The key to earning more while working less is identifying where 20% of effort yields 80% of returns. This means:

  • Focusing on high-value activities that align with your strengths
  • Eliminating or reducing low-value tasks
  • Understanding that the best performers are often underpaid relative to their true value

Time Management

The principle reveals that 80% of our achievements come from 20% of our time. To maximize productivity:

  1. Identify your highest-value activities
  2. Double down on the top 20% of activities that produce the most results
  3. Eliminate or delegate low-value tasks
  4. Control your time rather than letting others control it

Relationships

Quality matters more than quantity in relationships. The principle suggests:

  • Focusing on nurturing key alliances rather than maintaining many superficial connections
  • Recognizing that a few strong relationships will drive most of your success
  • Building mutual connections between your key allies

Business and Strategy

In business, the principle reveals several crucial insights:

  • A small percentage of customers typically generate most of your profit
  • Focus on providing exceptional service to your top 20% of customers
  • Simplify your product line to focus on the most profitable items
  • Make decisions with 80% of the information rather than waiting for perfect knowledge

Project Management

Successful project management through the 80/20 lens means:

  • Focusing team members on the few things that truly matter
  • Spending more time planning at the start of a project
  • Regularly re-evaluating priorities based on new information
  • Limiting critical issues to no more than seven at a time

Negotiation

The principle applies to negotiations in fascinating ways:

  • Only 20% of negotiation points typically comprise 80% of the value
  • Most significant concessions occur in the final 20% of the negotiation time
  • Build a list of less important points to use as bargaining chips

The Path to Greater Happiness

The 80/20 principle extends beyond productivity to personal fulfillment. It teaches us that:

  • 80% of our happiness comes from 20% of our activities
  • We should consciously pursue what makes us happy rather than indirect goals
  • Success comes from finding the right things to achieve, not just working harder
  • Most failures come from races others enter us into, while successes come from races we choose

Practical Implementation

To start applying the 80/20 principle in your life:

  1. Identify your highest-value activities and relationships
  2. Eliminate or reduce low-value commitments
  3. Focus on what you do exceptionally well
  4. Make decisions with incomplete information using the “Bezos Rule” (70% information is usually enough to take action)
  5. Invest in relationships and activities that consistently produce results

Remember, the goal isn’t to achieve perfect 80/20 ratios but to recognize and act on the principle that a few things are always much more important than most things. By focusing our energy on these vital few areas, we can dramatically improve our results while reducing unnecessary effort.

The beauty of the 80/20 principle lies in its universal applicability and its promise of greater results through focused effort. Whether in business, relationships, or personal development, it provides a framework for achieving more by doing less – but doing the right things.

Howard Schultz’s Business Leadership Masterclass: Key Insights for Entrepreneurs

Howard Schultz, the legendary former CEO of Starbucks, offers profound insights into business leadership and entrepreneurship in his masterclass. Here are the essential lessons he shares for aspiring business leaders:

Jump In, But Be Prepared
Schultz believes we live in an unprecedented time of opportunity for entrepreneurs, with easily available technology, accessible capital, and global markets. However, he emphasizes that success requires both discipline and a clear understanding of what you’re willing to sacrifice. The key is to weigh both the cost of jumping in and the cost of not taking the leap – because as Schultz notes, “regret is expensive.”

Values and Profits Are Not Enemies
One of Schultz’s most compelling insights is that company values and profitability aren’t opposing forces – they’re complementary. He demonstrates this through Starbucks’ early decision to offer health insurance and stock options to part-time workers, a values-based choice that helped attract and retain loyal employees while differentiating the company in the marketplace.

The Power of Curiosity and Continuous Learning
At 65, Schultz emphasizes the importance of remaining curious and constantly seeking new knowledge. He advocates for putting yourself in uncomfortable positions to learn, embracing failure as a teacher, and seeking mentorship opportunities – both as a mentee and mentor.

Disrupt, Don’t Pioneer
Interestingly, Schultz advises against being a pioneer in entirely new markets. Instead, he recommends disrupting existing categories with innovative approaches. He cites Allbirds as an example, which successfully entered the crowded shoe market through unique materials, competitive pricing, and strong emotional connection with customers.

Focus and Financial Discipline
Schultz stresses the importance of maintaining clear focus on 3-5 key objectives rather than chasing too many goals. He provides specific metrics for retail success, such as aiming for a 2:1 sales-to-investment ratio and a 20% operating margin.

Culture as Foundation
Perhaps most importantly, Schultz emphasizes the critical importance of company culture. He compares building business culture to raising children – it requires early imprinting of core values and direction. The culture should reflect the company’s mission and values, and leaders must move swiftly to address any inconsistencies.

Leadership in Crisis
Schultz offers valuable insights about leadership during difficult times. He emphasizes the importance of transparency with employees during crises, making tough decisions quickly when necessary, and maintaining company values even when under pressure to prioritize the bottom line.

The blog post wouldn’t be complete without mentioning Schultz’s famous attention to detail – even including his personal method for preparing the perfect French press coffee, symbolizing how leadership excellence often comes down to caring about the smallest details while never losing sight of the bigger picture.

For aspiring entrepreneurs and business leaders, Schultz’s masterclass serves as a reminder that success in business isn’t just about profit margins and market share – it’s about building something meaningful and enduring through strong values, constant innovation, and genuine leadership.

His final message is particularly encouraging: while there is no straight line to success, many of the challenges you’ll face can be solved through intuition and life experience rather than textbook knowledge. It’s a reminder that leadership is as much about personal growth and wisdom as it is about business acumen.

RF Microneedling in Irvine

RF Microneedling is a popular treatment known for enhancing skin texture, reducing wrinkles, and promoting collagen production. I just received RF Microneedling few days ago on the lower half of my face and under chin area. It’s my first time doing it. I am excited to see the results.

If you’ve recently undergone this procedure, adhering to the post-treatment instructions is crucial for optimal results and a smooth recovery. Here’s a comprehensive guide to help you navigate the aftercare process. Note what is written here is just opinion and does not constitute any sort of medical advice.

Immediate Aftercare:

  • Skin Sensations: Right after the treatment, expect your skin to feel warm, akin to a mild sunburn. Sensitivity and itchiness are common in the first few days.
  • Redness and Swelling: These symptoms typically peak within the first day and start to subside thereafter.

Day-by-Day Recovery:

  • Day 1: Redness and swelling are common. Refrain from touching the treated areas for at least 12 hours. Avoid makeup, washing, cleaning, or moisturizing your face for a full 24 hours.
  • Days 3-7: Your skin will start to look brighter and more even. You may notice a reduction in sebum production and mild crusting. By the end of the week, you can resume your regular skincare routine and start using retinoids.
  • 1 Month: Noticeable improvements in fine lines, wrinkles, skin laxity, and pore size.
  • 1-3 Months: Continuous improvement in wrinkle reduction, collagen production, and overall skin texture.

What to Avoid:

  • For 12 Hours: Do not touch the treated areas.
  • For 24 Hours: No makeup, washing, cleaning, or moisturizing.
  • For 2 Weeks: Avoid harsh topical treatments or alcohol-based toners.
  • For 1 Week: No anti-inflammatory medications (like ibuprofen), icing the face, vigorous activities, or excessive heat exposure (sauna, hot tub, steam treatments).

First Week Protocol:

  • Day 1: Do not touch the treated area. You may apply Alastin Skin Nectar at night and take antihistamines to reduce swelling.
  • Day 2: Use a mild cleanser, mild moisturizer, and SPF.
  • Days 3-6: Return to your regular skincare routine.
  • Day 7: Start using retinoids again.

Long-Term Care:

Improvements will continue over the next 4-6 months as collagen rebuilds.

Next chapter (?)

I started this blog with a post having the picture of me moving out of the first apartment I moved to in Seattle. My time in that apartment formed the foundation of what was to come next in my life. From that micro-apartment, I moved into what would be my first purchased property in the US & used that as motivation & fuel in pushing myself further.

Now the time has come again for me to pack bags, and set my compass to a new location — only this time my bags will be little heavier from when I first moved to the states with barely a luggage full.

I am moving to Southern California. Stay tuned as I share more updates.

Goals for 2020

It’s February but thought I’d write down some of my goals for 2020 and hold myself accountable.

  1. Complete degree.
  2. Increase proficiency with Machine learning / Deep learning.
  3. Gym – get in the best shape of my life.
  4. Secret Goal: code name. N.
  5. Skin – get great skin.
  6. Do something about my eye bags 😛
  7. Secret goal: Become SC.
  8. Read 5 books.

 

If I can hit all of these goals, that would be a fantastic year. Let’s get to work. I’m excited 🙂